Of all the things I have learned in my escapades, besides the "BIG" lesson, the most useful and valuable is that people are different, not better or worse than each other, just different. Everyone has thier own tempo, their own series of movements, thier own way of doing those things that they do. No one outranks someone else, it is simply whether or not thier movements fit with your own. When you breath, do you breath together? When you meet each other's eyes, do they meet or just miss? When you move, do you roll together, or does someone drag or rush the motion? It isnt ever that someone is better, it is simply that the two of you fit together better than all the rest...